Help your child to learn


How to write high-scoring compositions?

A composition is a story. When exciting and interesting stories are told, teachers give high marks to the compositions: Just like the higher marks our students receive in their compositions.

How to write exciting and interesting stories?

Raja, our teacher, is an award-winning published writer of over 50 short stories. He has adapted the short story telling technique and teaches this technique to our students. In the process, he draws out each student’s talent, creativity, imagination and develops them into each student’s unique voice in writing. The results are high-scoring compositions.

Let your child do our FREE trial lesson and see how Raja develops your child. Your child is under no obligation to join our Composition Writing Course. The FREE lesson for each level (P2 to 'O' Level) is available at our website: http://www.myschoolsuccess.com. Read more about the Composition Writing Course too at our website: http://www.myschoolsuccess.com.

Is your child 'really learning' or 'pretending to learn'?

We have drawn up a table to show the differences between ‘real learning’ and ‘false learning' (or pretending to learn) in writing. Which side is your child on?

Your child really learns in our Composition Writing and Comprehension Courses. Learn more about the courses at our homepage.

Real Learning False Learning
Draws out child’s creativity and imagination (which the child already has) and builds the child’s writing skills and abilities. Makes the child memorise compositions to reproduce word for word in the exams.
Encourages the child to read widely so child will ‘know’ when to put in correct vocabulary in the correct context in compositions. Encourages child to memorise big words and phrases which the child does not know how to apply correctly in compositions.
Builds full confidence in the child to be able to write on any composition title. Causes the child to be afraid to write on any composition title that child has not done before.
Causes the child to look upon any writing task as exciting and challenging. Causes the child to be afraid of any writing project that is new.
Teaches the child to love writing. Causes the child to dread writing.
Builds long-term strengths in writing that last a lifetime. Helps the child to only pass the next examination.
Builds the child’s ability and confidence to apply his or her knowledge to any situation, including MCQ and application, like answering open-ended questions and composition writing. Teaches the child by rote so that he or she can score in MCQ situations but will be weak in application, like answering open-ended questions and composition writing.
The child takes any language exam with full confidence. The child is afraid of exams and goes through lots of stress before and during exams.
The child remembers what he has learnt all his life. The child forgets whatever he has learnt after the exams, and has to memorise all over again for the next exams.
The child enjoys school life; especially reading and studying language, and becomes strong in language. The child is unhappy in school and dreads reading and studying language, and remains weak in language.


Help your child to spell

The problem

It can be very frustrating for a child to write a beautiful story in his or her composition lesson, and then receive it back with lots of red marks with ‘Sp’. Can we help our children to eradicate this, or at least reduce their errors?

How most children usually spell

Most of them use phonics – spelling according to sound. We teach them this method in kindergarten and many of them think that this is the only way to learn spelling. But quite a few problems come up because of this:

·        Many English words are not spelt phonically.

·        The child learns that certain letters have certain sounds and then is suddenly confused that the same letters have     

         different sounds.

·        This discovery leads to the belief that spelling is not logical.

·        English is not like Malay, the Romanised form; in Malay all the letters behave themselves. They sound as they are    

         written and always sound the same.

 

The more serious problem

The more serious problem, however, is not that English words do not always sound the way they are written but that children have different strategies for learning. The phonic method is only helpful for children who are ‘phonic’ or ‘audio’.

At this point, a little background explanation is required.

 

Visual/Auditory/Kinaesthetic (VAK)

All of us communicate with the world with our five senses – sight, hearing, feeling, smell and taste. The world would have been an easier place – albeit a duller one – if all our five senses are equally powerful in all of us. Unfortunately, each of us uses the five senses in different measure. Some of us use ‘visual’ more; other’s use audio’ more; and still others use ‘kinaesthetic’ (feeling) more. For the purpose of this article, we will leave out the senses of smell and taste. This is because these two have little bearing on spelling.

Since we use all three senses unequally to communicate with the world, we fall under one of these six categories:

·                    VAK

·                    VKA

·                    AVK

·                    AKV

·                    KVA

·                    KAV

 

The senses in front would be strongest sense, and the sense at the end would be our weakest sense. Eg. If I am VAK, I would have ‘visual’ as my most preferred method of communication; ‘audio’ would be my second method and ‘kinaesthetic’ my last or weakest. If people communicated to me in my strongest preference I would understand the message very well; if in my second preference, I would understand fairly well and if in my third preference, I would be rather confused.

 

Let me illustrate this with an example:

 

Let us assume that we need to give directions to a friend to come to our home for tea. If the person is more ‘visual’ or ‘V’, we can just draw him a map or tell him our address and he will arrive safely by following the map at the bus-interchange. If the person is more ‘audio’ or ‘A’, he will understand the verbal instructions we give him and arrive safely. If the person is mostly ‘kinaesthetic’ or ‘K’, it would be advisable to fetch him from the bus-stop or perhaps even from the interchange!

 

Of course this is an over-simplification and there is much more to the concept of ‘VAK’. I would like to recommend anyone interested in wanting to know more to read books on NLP (neuro-linguistic programming). I would particularly recommend ‘Awaken the Giant Within’ by Anthony Robbins.

 

How can we quickly identify if a child is mostly ‘V’ ‘A’ or ‘K’?

 

We can make a quick survey by observing and listening to the child. If the child cares a lot about looking good, being neat and tidy with a good handwriting, than he is probably a ‘V’. We can confirm this by listening to the words he uses. If he uses words like ‘I see’, ‘let me take a look’ or other words related to ‘seeing’ he is probably a ‘V’. An ‘A’ child can be identified by what she does too. She would talk a lot and be a keen listener. She would appreciate music or want you to tell stories rather than read. You can confirm by listening to the words she uses. An ‘A’ child would use words related to hearing like ‘I hear’ what you mean and may even point to his ears. A ‘K’ child would be one who likes to play with clay, run about a lot, likes to cuddle up to you and is usually very sensitive. The words he uses would be ‘feeling’ words like ‘I catch what you mean’; ‘I have a bad feeling about this’ and so on.

 

The Phonic (Audio) method

 

Of the three, our usual method of teaching spelling, the phonic method - where the child breaks the words down into syllables and keeps repeating it – will work very well for the ‘A’ child. All he needs to do is keep saying ‘c-at’ cat, ‘b-at’ bat etc and he will master spelling. If your child is doing very well using this method, he is probably an ‘AVK’ or AKV’. He could also be a ‘VAK’ or KAV” where ‘A’ is his second preferred sense. However, he is unlikely to be a ‘KVA’ or VKA’. A child whose ‘A’ is at the end, is likely to have problems learning spelling in this way. The disadvantage of this method is that children will still make mistakes in spelling; this is because there are just so many English words which are not phonic. An ‘A’ child who is a poor speller is probably following the sound and spelling ‘knife’ as ‘naif’.

 

The Visualisation (Visual) Method

 

A child whose main sense is ‘V’, ie ‘VAK’ or ‘VKA’ will need to use this method to master spelling. A child who is ‘KVA’ or ‘AVK’ will also benefit. The visualisation method is basically where the child looks at the picture of the word in his mind and reads out what he sees. Eg when spelling ‘mother’ the child will look up and a little to the left and ‘see’ the word ‘m-o-t-h-e-r’ and read out what he sees. In fact if a child is able to make a good picture of the word, he will actually be able to spell the words backwards!

 

The visualisation method is the best method and we should teach it to all our children – even to those who are good phonic spellers. This is because it even works for spelling words which are spelled the way they sound. A child who uses the visualisation method will spell ‘knife’ correctly and not ‘naif’. This is because he ‘sees’ the word and does not depend on the sound of the letters.

 

How to teach the visualisation method

 

We should begin with helping the child to develop his visualisation skills. Incidentally, all children are good at visualisation so we do not have to try very hard. Play a game with a child. Let him look intently at a picture and then ask him to describe it by ‘looking’ at it in his mind. Some children may want to keep their eyes closed; this is acceptable of course. From the pictures, we could change to words – at first simple familiar words and then to more complicated words. To test whether the child is picturing the words correctly, have him look at his mind picture and read out the spelling of the words backwards. If he can do this he is visualising correctly; if not he is conning you – he is memorising and pretending to visualise!

 

Steps to visualisation

 

Guide your child to:

·         Get a clear internal image of the word broken into syllables. Eg. Dic-tion-a-ry.

·         Look at the internal message and spell backwards. This is to test if the image is accurate.

·         Pronounce it syllable by syllable – by ‘looking’ at the image of the word in his mind.

·         Now spell the word backwards from the image ie. from right to left.

·         If they can see the image they should be able to spell backwards.

·         If they cannot spell backwards, it means they have not got the strategy yet. They cannot really see the words.

·         Keep practising until they can.

·         Make it full of fun and laughter.

 

The Kinaesthetic Method

 

If neither of the above methods works on your child, then he must be strongly kinaesthetic. (There is absolutely nothing wrong with a ‘K’ child; in fact, a lot of the world’s geniuses come from this group.)For a strongly ‘K’ child, it is good to let him write out the words as he learns them. He may use his finger to write on the table or even ‘skywrite’ and say out the letters.

Usually the visual method works for most children but there are exceptions. If it does not, try the other strategies. Use all three strategies. Find out which works best for your child.

 

Use Rewards Only to Motivate a Child

 

Simple rewards for success:

  • A hug
  • A ‘high five’
  • A biscuit
  • Collect tokens to exchange for bigger rewards.

 

No punishment please!

 

·         A child punished for spelling will learn to hate spelling or become afraid of it.

·         If that happens, we really have a problem!

·         Positive motivation always!

 

A parting word about the ‘K’ child

 

The strongly ‘K’ child may have to struggle through school. This is mainly because the school system uses ‘V’ and ‘A’ which favour the other two groups rather than the ‘K’ group which are a minority. Actually this is no big problem. Most children adjust themselves in using the senses they are not strong in rather well. After all, millions of left-handed people seem to thrive in a right-handed world. We can help by helping the ‘K’s to adjust. The ‘visualisation with pictures’ games would be helpful. Another way is to let them watch movies or read books and then tell the stories. Rewards will encourage them to go a long way. We would do well to remember that many of the geniuses of the world – like Thomas Edison, Henry Ford, Honda and Bill Gates – are probably ‘K’ people as are top sportsmen.

Correct use of words and phrases

Many students do not know how to correctly use phrases in their writing, so we decided to help them with our "Big Book of 200 Phrases'. Look at the phrase 'out of the blue'. It means an unexpected happening. 

Therefore writing: 'Out of the blue, my mother asked me to buy salt.' is incorrect. It would be correct to say 'Out of the blue I received a phone call from a friend I have not seen in two years.

To receive our 'Big Book of 200 Phrases', just register at our website http://www.myschoolsuccess.com, in either the Primary, Secondary and Junior College Pages, and you'll immediately be taken to a page with a link to download it to your computer.

Here's to better writing for your child!

Help your child to read

Why reading

   Reading is the easiest way for children to master all aspects of the English Language including grammar, punctuation, spelling and vocabulary.

   It does not matter if children start to read comics or simple books because as they mature and develop, their tastes will change and their language ability will develop for them to want to read more matured and varied material.

   What is important is to nurture the love of reading at an early age. 

How to get your child to read

It is to let them read comics and books on topics they are interested in.

    For example if your child is interested in dinosaurs, borrow from the library or buy all the dinosaur books they want.

    If your child is interested in science or history borrow or buy any science or history books they are interested.

The important thing is to get your child to read not what they read.

Some children love sports like football and basketball. Get them to read books on the history of football, their football heroes, how the football game is played etc.

    Some children love computer games. Get them to read books or read material on the internet about background information on the computer games, how they were created, the intricacies of the game etc.

   As mentioned before, the important point is to get children to read. Take them to the library and turn them loose to discover the books they want to read.

Why do children lose interest in a book

If they lose interest in a book, it could be that the level is too high. Help them to choose a book on the same topic in simpler language.

How to encourage your child to read

Reading to young children and reading in reading circles is also a good way to stimulate their interest to read.

   If your child still shows reluctance to read, then link reading with an enjoyable activity. For example, a library session may be followed by a McDonald lunch, or the reading of a book followed by watching a favourite TV programme. In time, going to the library will automatically be a pleasurable activity by itself.

   Always link reading with rewards, hugs and happiness; do not ever scold or punish a child for not reading. The latter will link reading with negative connotations and build up a dislike for reading.

How your child can acquire a large vocabulary

   The easy way for your child to acquire a large vocabulary is to read a lot of books. Why? This is because the English Language uses many words which mean different things in different contexts.

   By reading a lot of books, your child's brain would have registered the different meanings of words in different contexts, even if the words are unfamiliar. Your child's brain would have noted the unfamiliar words and understood their meanings in their different contexts. Therefore, acquiring an expanded vocabulary occurs naturally when your child reads a lot.


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